It can be hard knock life on the dating scene if your a thick girl because guys act like they don't want a big girl in public but they want to lay up wit a big girl. *Let me back track most men....they're are some straight up brother who can appreciate a real women in curves. However in DC, the land of materialism and show stopping....the decents ones want these video/model chicks. It goes both ways because I do like a 6ft and better brother and tend to date the slim jim type...maybe I should show the big poppas some love and get me a little teddy bear to keep me warm....hmmm...things to ponder. Thick brothas and sistas need love too!
Why are men/women so caught up on the superficial? Is physical appearance really that important at the end of the day?
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ReplyDeleteI think that as a person, u know what "turns you on," and that plays a part, but at the same time, I think that a lot of people take the physical preference issues to the extreme, to the point where they discriminate on a certain type of woman. If a dude goes nuts over a thick girl, but there's a slim sista w/ all these good qualities that ol boy would appreciate...the slim sista should get a fair crack...but we all know the world and dating scene is far from fair..
I know girl, I used to be TURRABULL ;o) w/ it, but now I find myself looking at the internal qualities of a man & giving them A LOT more weight than the outward appearance. Dont get it twisted, you have to have something on the outside that attracts me to you, but keepin it real, if I dont like chocolate cake, it doesnt matter what kind of icing you slap on it, im still not gonna want it.
:o) & those are my 3 cents
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