Thursday, July 16, 2009

Bug A Boo

So its not just the ladies experiencing dating woes in the DMV. My homeboy told me he met this young girl around 20 (he is 24) at a neo soul concert. She was peeping him and followed up with her girl later about him. Well they exchange numbers and go on an initial date. So he said the date was alright but she was a little pushy. Well he told her the next day he would be really busy and to make a long story short she called him 6 times and 4 texts the very next day. After about the 3rd call he picked up and told her he was busy and she called 3 more times after that. Based on the Bug A Boo tactics she pulled he ended up telling her they should be just friends further crushing her dreams and she proceeded to still call. I told him at this point he needed to go into No Response Mode!

I think we can all agree that was TOO MUCH!!! Or to give her the benefit of the doubt maybe because of the booless epidemic she didn't know what to do when she peeped a decent guy. Nonetheless, first rule of the game is to never appear desperate (I often use my art of war tactics when dating...lol). But it raises a good question how much do you expect a person to call you when you are in the getting to know you phase or full out dating?

When I am dating a person I expect to speak to them at least once a day(not several) it doesn't even have to be a long drawn out conversation it can be just a simple "hey how r u doing"...is that too much to expect? I don't think so but what do you think?

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